~ The Kissy Bits ~ - Romance Writing Without Cooties

When are they coming back?

2007-02-01T12:34:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits will return to their monthly schedule after Chinese New year.
Turns out making kion dancing costumes is a job and a half!
on the plus side, we'll have a YouTube video for our efforts. Yay!

in preparation for the April show (or maybe May), send me your favourite book video/book audio promo links.
I'll also have the yearly show schedule up soon so you can send me thoughts, ideas and anything else to do with upcoming shows. Stay tuned!

The Kissy Bits #17 - Where We Return

2006-12-11T09:58:00.000+11:00

Yay, the Kissy Bits are back!
What's been going on? A lot of excuses, obviously.
Also, a brief look at things to come.
It was a looong excuse. ^_-

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The Kissy Bits will resume in December

2006-11-28T12:31:00.000+11:00

Yes! After all these empty promises, I've finally managed to carve some time out for recording.

Expect some major revisions to the show's format. Same content, only shinier!

Thanks for everybody who's emailed me or left comments about the show and what you would like to see. I've definitely found a number of great topic ideas here.
So make sure your feeds are ready for next week, when the Kissy Bits continue.

Where are the Kissy Bits?

2006-10-02T15:35:00.000+10:00

Sorry everybody.
I know you probably all think I've given up on the podcasting world, but fear not!
I'm trying hard to get everything set up and recording again.
After losing all my recordings from the conference, it took me longer than I liked to regroup. But I'm still here!
Despite broken hand, broken iPod and general brokeness, I promise you, the Kissy Bits will be back.

in the meantime, why don't you tell me what you'd like to see in upcoming shows?

Conference Kissy Bits

2006-08-17T10:35:00.000+10:00

The conference Kissy Bits recordings went a bit differently than expected. The conference shows will be posted up daily starting from next Monday.

Right now, it's crunch time to make up for lost writing time, organise kung fu-related and other such issues, and catch up on sleep, housework and cooking.
Oh, and a cat in dire need of attention.

New proper episode coming the week after. Stay tuned. I hope you're allw riting well.

The Kissy Bits #16 - The heroine

2006-07-29T06:28:00.000+10:00

Show Sixteen – the heroic heroine

Finally!

Why have I been holding out on the heroine? Cause heroines are that much harder.

“Just shut up and give me more page time with wonder boy here!”

When you ask people to describe their heroines, they’ll often give you a physical rundown.

The ingredients that separate a true heroine from just a mediocre one are based on what's inside of her.

First, a romantic heroine must CONNECT.

Second, a romantic heroine must have STRENGTH.

Third, a romantic heroine must DESERVE YOUR HERO.

A heroine embodies all our hopes and dreams of a perfect love.

Heroine archetypes:

The BOSS.
The SEDUCTRESS.
The SPUNKY KID.
The FREE SPIRIT.
The WAIF.
The LIBRARIAN.
The CRUSADER.
The NURTURER.

Think of your favourite heroines of all times.

The next few episodes are going to be a lot different to what we’ve had so far. It’s conference season for romance writers everywhere, and as I’ve said, I’ll be heading to the Romance Writers of Australia conference at the Gold Coast.

If you’ve got anything you want to know about the conference, about the writing journey, about romance in writing, you know how to reach me!

If you’ll be on the gold coast for the conference, drop me a line and we can get together for a chat. I promise I’ll be nice to you.

Show link:
Heroine Archetypes

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The Kissy Bits monthly

2006-07-21T09:37:00.000+10:00

Hey Kissy people.
The Kissy Bits will be moving to a monthly schedule until September, due to deadlines (yay, deadlines!).
I haven't forgotten about you all, and the new show is coming on the weekend. No, really! Stop laughing!

Also, I am going to try and corner authors (both published and unpublished) during the RWA conference next month, so if you've got any questions you'd like me to ask, or a specific Aussie author you'd like me to approach, drop me a line, either as a comment, or via email!

Now, to torture my heroine with an egg beater...

The Kissy Bits #15 - Naming Your baby

2006-06-26T11:22:00.000+10:00

The Kissy Bits Show 15 – Naming Your Baby

- with real-life examples from yours truly! -

1. Keep it short.

2. Avoid fancy words.

3. Make sure your title reflects your story.

4. Make your title original.

5. Brainstorm.

6. Alliteration always attracts.

7. Tried and true with a twist.

8. Use words that contradict and/or conflict with each other.

9. You can't copyright your title.

10. Have a backup.

Next Show: All About Your Heroine

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Show 15 comes next week - promise!

2006-06-13T08:21:00.000+10:00

Due to a rather imortant deadline this week, I didn't have time for a new show yet, but there will be one next week (and there are no real deadlines in sight that cause me to drop everything, so yay!)

Don't forget to email or post a description (see last show), too!

Keep writing.

Switchpod problems - yet again.

2006-05-26T14:59:00.000+10:00

Switchpod deleted all my files when they moved servers (or wahtever it is they did, I forget).
I'm currently uploading all the old episodes again, going backwards, so please be patient. They should become available again soon-ish.

The Kissy Bits #14 - Bedroom Edition

2006-05-26T14:45:00.000+10:00

The Kissy Bits Show 14 – Closing the bedroom door almost all the way

Why has the show been so late?
I lost my microphone.

Anybody who is going to attend the Romance Writers of Australia conference in August, drop me a line!

Warning: This episode contains words some people might find offensive, and descriptions of scenes not suitable to minors. If you or anyone within earshot might get offended, turn around now.

Talking about sex is one thing, but writing about it is, in some ways, even worse.
- "what if Mom reads it?" syndrome.

- Why romance writing is better than writing murder mysteries.

- How do you get over the embarrassment?

- celebrating sex for all the beauty it symbolises

- difference between having sex and making love

– tension

- Be brave with it!

Promo: Confessions of a Struggling Writer

- Push your comfort level, but don't write to someone else's standards

- Remember you are not writing about yourself

- Sexual tension is more important than sex itselfprolonged the wait, the sweeter the reward.

- Don't follow a formula

- Sexual experiences is part of the plot

- Use all the senses

- Voice

- What do we call "IT"?

Got any questions? Comments? Feedback? Drop me a line on the show’s blog at kissybits.blogspot.com.

For an upcoming show, I’ve got a challenge for you. I won’t do the show until I get enough replies, so you’ll *have* to do it if you want to find out why.

I want you to dscribe someone’s face. And I want you to make it romantic. It can be first or third person, as detailed as you like or as general as you wish to make it, but I want you to convey a sense of attraction in your description. After all, that’s what we’r talking about.

In the next show, we’ll talk all about your WIP and you. Naming your baby and letting go.

Until next time, stay in the mood.

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Mr Flu, meet Mrs House Renovations. Charmed.

2006-05-22T08:39:00.000+10:00

Sorry everybody!
I know I said I'd be more on the ball with the next show, and wouldn't you know it, the day after I uploaded the last show, Mr. Flu came to visit. And boy, did he make himself at home.

But my voice is back, and as soon as our landlord is finished with his random "improvements", I'll record a new show for you guys.

Hope you've all been doing well with your writing!

The Kissy Bits #13 - First Kiss

2006-04-27T10:41:00.000+10:00

The Kissy Bits #13 - First Kiss

We're back after a long hiatus!
Lots of writing has been done in the meantime. My chicklit novel is getting ready for podiobook goodness, yay!
Also, your host has taken another step towards 30, shhhhh.

The Kiss: expression of unique emotion between unique people.
Don't make it anybody's kiss.
Kiss as plot device
Is your kiss only making the right noises?

PROMO: Morevi

Beware of purple prose.
High tension or low tension, where should your kiss be?

Challenge: Write that perfect kiss.

Next show: The Kissy Bits #14 - Opening the Bedroom Door, or: Is it all about the smut?

Show Links:
The Site of Podiobooks: Podiobooks.com
Morevi the Podiobook

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New show coming tomorrow!

2006-04-26T15:11:00.000+10:00

I would have had the show up today, but due to technical difficulties (read: need to reinstall Audacity), it'll have to be tomorrow. but it's all recorded and everything, so whee!

Last delay, I promise!

some delay with the next show

2006-04-07T13:47:00.000+10:00

Sorry verybody, but until I get the admin side of my life sorted out, I hardly have the emotional energy to write, let alone podcast.
I'll try and get show #13 up as soon as possible, but I can't guarantee when that'll be.

And I wouldn't want to let you down on your first kiss... ^_-

The Kissy Bits #12 - Emotional Honesty

2006-03-24T10:10:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits #12 - Emotional Honesty

New intro!

Since a lot of people have been asking me when I’ll put the Kissy in the Bits, I’ve decided to dedicate the next few shows to the craft of romance in writing.

Is romance really just about making the right noises?
Let’s talk a bit about getting emotional.

Learn about the Stanislavski method of acting

Deep POV gets you there.

Employ all the senses, go into the deepest details. And once you’re there, dig deeper. And once you’ve added as much depth to a scene as you can? Go deeper!

Your love scenes are not interchangeable. They happen in that order for a reason.

Don’t pull your emotional punches. Dig deep. Strike gold. Make emotions matter in your fiction.

Show Links:
Patricia Kay's Writing The Love Scene
Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages

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The Kissy Bits #11 - From the Mail Bag

2006-03-16T14:45:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits #11 - From the Mail Bag
just having a look at some feedback.
Also, the first time recording with a new microphone. What do you reckon?

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The Kissy Bits #10 - Second Try

2006-03-08T12:22:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits #10 - Writing About Real People

For those of you that couldn't get the show to download last time, here is a fresh new file, all tasty and ready to go. If there are still problems with this one or older files, please let me know, and I'll bang my head against the wall some more.

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Files are up again - finally!

2006-03-07T14:11:00.000+11:00

I finally managed to get both show #10 up and running and the two older shows that spontaneously decided to stop working.
Phew.
If you are still having problems with any of the episodes, please let me know.

I'll upload show #11 (and #12...) soon.

Switchpod problems - again!

2006-02-27T16:55:00.000+11:00

Switchpod is having problems with its file archive again, it seems. You can't access most of the podcasts at the moment. I hope they're going to fix it soon. Grrrr.
Sorry everybody! There *should* be fixed files for everything up to show #10 now, but for some bizarre reason beyond me, it doesn't weant to work. Patience...

The Kissy Bits #10 - Writing About Real People

2006-02-17T13:05:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits #10 - Writing About Real People

Legal issues in writing
How to keep it real: Do your research.
What about your friends and family?
How to deal with helpful story offers

What do you want to hear about on the Kissy Bits? Let me know!

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The Kissy Bits Valentine's Special!

2006-02-14T10:03:00.000+11:00

The Kissy Bits Valentine's Special. Let's talk about emotional honesty here. And a confession: I don't like v-day. Even as a romance writer, I can see why it's a bad day. Can you?
Let's talk about the Big Gestures and how you can make them more meaningful. These tips are for real life AND writing. How neat is that?

Show Links:
Valentine's e-cards
Anti-Valentine's e-cards

Next show: Writing About Friends or "I'm not like that!"

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The Kissy Bits #9 - Subletting The Brain

2006-02-10T11:30:00.000+11:00

Subletting The Brain

Muses
The canonical nine muses
Muse Obedience School
Muse as a measure of story idea
Exercise: write down 20 reasons why a woman walks out on her first date.

Promo: I Should Be Writing

The inner editor
Editors are good for you
Finding a compromise
Working together with your inner people

Taking responsibility for your own writing

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The Kissy Bits #8 - The Chick Lit Show

2006-02-03T17:15:00.000+11:00

What is chick lit?
Chick lit sub-genres
Chick lit vs romance
Chick lit vs literary chicks
Chick lit people
An actual example by yours truly
First person
Exercise: Narrow your point of view; write a chick lit

Show links:
Chick Lit Writers of the World
Chick Lit Books(with a great list of sub-genres!)

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Gung hay fat choi

2006-01-29T11:47:00.000+11:00

Show #8 will be delayed until mid-next week due to a very hectic schedule over Chinese new year. Hope everybody's safe and happy!

And make sure you keep writing. ^_-